I don't pay to message on here so I won't ever reach out. I am much more reliably on FetLife- handle is EggaSponge
Note: My formal title is Your Grace (gender neutral), and you may not refer to me by a gendered title or call me miss, lady, girl, or a woman. And I am NOT into forced feminization or sissification of cis men - this means you, crossdressers. My apologies, but that's not a turn-on for me. Do that with someone else please. However, queer and nonbinary dmab people are more than welcome. In addition, I have been described jokingly as a "Writing Domme"- that is, I demand a high quality of prose from potential subs because kink is mostly mental for me. So if you don't know the difference between you're and your, move on.
I am polyamorous and a nonbinary trans person. This means that I pursue relationships with multiple people at once and I am neither a man nor a woman. My pronouns are she/her and they/them. And yes, you will need to have a more nuanced understanding of gender to spend time with me and actually care about trans issues. Silence is complicity, and any implication to the contrary is a sign you don't care about my identity. I am developing a few D/s dynamics right now. When I have a more casual D/s dynamic I like 24/7 relationships, but I am also super open to something deeper that is egalitarian. I have PTSD and trust is vital to me in any relationship. If you are interested in serving me, I will literally need to decide that I do not think you are a physical threat to me, which cannot happen until we meet in person. I'm done with fuckboys though. Please be respectful and actually show up for things I schedule with you. Get over your feelings about male submission because I'm not a woman and I'm not here to coddle you.
When it comes to my style of play, I would describe myself as a Goddess Domme with a penchant for sadism and degredation and a strong primal predator side. I crave worship and appreciation very strongly, especially in well-written prose and through constant physical touch. I like knowing my submissive sees me as worthy of such worship because of my creativity, my capacity for mind control, and because of physical desirability. I see this submission as a precious thing and do not take it for granted, especially if the mental connection is strong. I tend to be attracted to smart people for this reason- my three biggest turn ons are emotional intelligence, the ability to write well, and kindness. I am also a dominant, a sadist, and I love to tease men and masculine folk, but all of these traits are secondary to my insatiable desire to be obeyed and pleasured. Yes, I am queer- my sexuality seems to be more greyace with feminine people. I have had a girlfriend before and would be willing to have a kinky relationship with a femme person I clicked with well. :) Subs who are willing to surrender themselves to me for my pleasure, enjoy pleasing more than being pleased, and take the orgasm gap very seriously are the best kind of partner for me. Fetishes that tend to be extremely important to me are receiving ass, pussy, and feet worship and eating and finger-fucking my subs' butts. Play for me is about power, touch, pain, and humiliation. It is not about gender and I do not like equating femininity with humiliation. I like to give submissives rules, but these are also earned and not freely given, like my title. And yes, while I do have an affinity for cucks, I'm more interested in Alpha subs and bulls right now.
I am interested in exploring my Primal Hunter side right now. This includes growling, biting, scratching, etc. I am also working on pegging and impact play. I really like paddling and have an interest in flogging and whipping!