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Seeking sub from the sticks

I’m in an ethical non-monogamous and polyamorous relationship seeking a sub/slave. The definition and/or mix is dependent on trust levels and what feels right. My top fetish is giving forced orgasms, preferably with bondage involved.

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My Public Sex preferences

What's your favorite public sex places?Pool
Describe the riskiest place you have had a sexual encounter?Parking lot

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildHeavyset
Height6' 2" (188 cm)
Eye ColorDepends on my mood
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairBeard
Best featureLegs
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My attractiveness:Attractive

Situation

Relationship StatusIn a relationship
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

My perfect matchI don’t know that I have a perfect match. We never know who we’re going to click with until it happens. I am clean and try to stay healthy, so you must as well. Physical beauty is subjective. I can see beauty in almost anyone. Being a dom/master for me is as much about connection and trust as it is about sex, so we won’t get far if we aren’t compatible.
Our first dateA low key coffee or dinner date where we can talk as long as we want. Where that leads is up in the air.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isDomme
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Dacryphilia, Defilement, Electro torture, Hair pulling, Power exchange, Spanking, Suspension, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesOther

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Once a week
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isFun sometimes
Sex toys:All of the above and more!
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Scat, cutting, needles, branding

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI want you bound to give me total accessibility and you to have no control of what I do. I want numerous sex toys and objects easily at hand. I want to use those toys, one at a time and in combination to force you to orgasm over and over again until you beg me to stop, but you can’t quite bring yourself to use the safe word. You must count every orgasm out loud. I might ask you questions, small quizzes, and if you get the answers wrong, there will be consequences. If you get them right, I will give you short moments of control, such as a rest or a choice of different stimulations. I will do my best to make you moan, scream, be incoherent, and lose count. If you lose count, there will be consequences.
Fantasy sex partner:I don’t really have a set ‘type’, though I am partial to a woman with some meat on her bones. For me, it’s more about attitude, poise, and how a woman treats herself.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Always
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Other
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Light Marks