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Since my divorce, I've become curious about myself and my sexuality, and exploring the common threads (or conflicts,) between my old-fashioned values and BDSM, specifically D/s. Ask me about this if you have interest... it is fascinating to me!

However, this does not mean I'm promiscuous. I have tremendous interest and curiosity, and want to explore everything with the right person. I prefer fewer compared to many partners. Maybe even just one special person like-minded, having similar values. I absolutely long to be loved, honored, obeyed, and respected like a Man. I want nothing more than to love, cherish, protect, teach, and take care of my girl. You will be protected and safe with me!!

When it comes to physical health, I exercise about 4 times per week. I don't care much for the bar scene, although I will have drinks with friends. I like my partners to follow my lead in the bedroom and sometimes tell me what to do. I love sex, but I'm also old-fashioned and more interested in long-term relationship marriage. In the bedroom, I tend to like both traditional, straight forward as well as kinky, experimental sex. Some of my favorite positions are cowgirl, doggy, and dining at the Y. I am happy to share my pictures with you but due to my career it is best that I save those for requests only. If interested, i'm on gmail, use my screen name.

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Public Sex preferences

The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:back seat of my car

Appearance

EthnicityIndian
BuildAverage
Height185 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureButt
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedNo
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000
Job TitleSystems Analyst / Project Manager

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness
My perfect matchNot sure if I really have a type or ideal, although my ex was blond, and I tend to date blond girls more. I think more important than physical characteristics are compatibility and complementary personalities and values. Being a deep thinker, I get along best with those women who have a spontaneous, outgoing, and playful demeanor. Someone who needs an anchor for her life, to hold her steady when she tends to drift too far too fast.
Our first dateno stress or unrealistic expectations

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, A combination of all, Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA sub
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Collar & lead / leash, Cupping, Food play, Hair pulling, Power exchange, Spanking, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:All of the above and more!
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person

Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy locationAirplane, At a park, Dark alley, Kitchen, Hotel/motel, Dressing room, On the beach, My office, Library

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Dominant / Submissive Spanking
Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Handcuffed to bed, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Cane, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon