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A bit about me,

I grew up in Texas and was raised by New Yorkers. That means I know how to treat a woman right on the street and rough in the back alley, heh. Joking aside, I am a working professional in the Dallas, TX area and am not willing to get more specific at this time. My education background is in military history (Wreck' Em Tech) and political science with a concentration on far east politics. That’s a really fancy way of saying I watch a lot of news these days, heh. My biggest hobbies include spending time with my pups, Formula One racing and college football. I am also a passionate conservationist and I do my best to unplugged and do some fly fishing whenever I can. One of my best moments as a Dom was on a small fishing vacation with my submissive....just me and her on the bank of a river and miles away from anyone to hear us ;) It’s a nice way to disconnect from city life and my other big hobby, tech. I like anything tech related from gizmos that can be used to automate an indoor garden to electric cars and everything in between. I also really enjoy getting out and doing some hiking, through it is about to get REALLY hot. Luckily I like traveling ;)

I consider myself an alpha male who is looking for a beta female - someone who isn't a doormat to be walked over. That being said, I am what I consider a true Dom. I am not someone who read 50 Shades of Grey or had a girlfriend occasionally have him tie her up. I figured out I was a so-called “Dom” when I hooked up with an old fling and after doing things MY way, she responded by saying “I didn’t know you were a Dom in bed”. I’m dominant because I do things my way and I enjoy pushing limits. To be clear - I respect boundaries, but I expect my partner to want me to push her boundaries as much as possible. One of my favorite pastimes is to take a “no” and turn that activity into something my partner truly enjoys. That being said, a real man respect limits but I am looking for someone who is willing to push her limits.

When it comes to the day to day, I want someone who is as motivated and professional as I am with goals similar to mine. I'm ambitious in my professional field and I need my beta submissive to push me to be a better form of alpha self. I have goals and my submissive should be an enabler. My submissive should similarly be ambitious and I have absolutely no time for people who are contempt with life and have no goals themselves. I am in a position to travel and would like to find someone who also isn't afraid to meet relatively quickly and class me up a bit ;) Take me to the theatre and introduce me to art and culture, I'll teach you how to fly fish and take you on my quest to hike every national park.

Regarding my approach to BDSM, I do not limit myself to "bedroom" play. I am not a part time Dom and I do not want a part time sub. When it comes to the day to day, I am a romantic. I would like to find someone who isn't afraid what others think in public and if I call you a pet name or find you so irresistible after taking you out to dinner that I need to grab your ass, I do not want you to be afraid of what strangers think.

In the bedroom it is a different story. I do not want a classy girl, I want a wanton slut. I want someone who isn't afraid to push limits or explore new possibilities. If you're grossed out by cum, I am not the man for you. If you have self confidence issues, I am not the man for you. I love curvy women, skinny women, and everything in between. I want to stress that I get turned on by the mental side of BDSM as much as the physical side of BDSM. I love blindfolds and other sensor play and I'm experienced in various contact tools ranging from floggers and canes to ritual spanking with paddle and hand. I have been in the lifestyle for more or less 10 years now in various states, with experience in littles (Daddy Dom) and being a Master. I have owned couples (husband and wife), subs, slaves, and littles and generally find submissives to have all forms of submissive (little, sub, slave) inside them to some degree. That being said, my day to day approach is to find the dominant form of submission that my partner is and take he/she down that path.

Note: I am able to travel and I generally expect to meet anyone I reach out to and connect with. I am not looking for an online only fling, though who doesn’t like a little fun. I also have no interest in one word/sentence answers and those messages will be ignored. I put effort into my profile, I expect the same.

Pictures available upon request, though I am extremely private and expect the same from my partner.

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Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyPolitics / Government
Employment StatusFull-time

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelIntermediate
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner