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Love hurts

Well, where do i start?

First I would consider myself a Sensual Sadist that likes to play with the duality of pleasure and pain. I'm a dominant but I wouldn't consider myself a "Daddy" Dom as I tend to take joy in breaking Brats that poke the bear. (Consider this your only warning). I enjoy flogging, spanking and physically overpowering and restraining willing participants for fun.

My current endeavors are designing and building BDSM furniture and learning the basics of shibari.

On my off time I enjoy a great story in all its many iterations and getting back into shape. I crave new adventures, good conversation and I'm allergic to boredom (It gets me into trouble).

In most of the fetishes I both enjoy and are curious about, I consider myself a novice at best and sorely need a mentor and opportunities to practice and grow. You can only practice Shibari on the dog so much before he get annoyed.

I am currently looking for play partners for fun and practice with a switchy rope bunny masochist being my unicorn.

See you on the Dark side.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height178 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
My AttractivenessAverage


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyManufacturing / Distribution
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$50,000 - $100,000

Looking For

I prefer:Good Looks, Great skills, Empathy, Passiveness

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isDominant
I am seekingA relationship
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Defilement, Spanking, Tickling games
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Group sex with swapping
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Strip clubs, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, but I want to try it
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Dildos/Vibrators, Pocket pussy, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person