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Daddy, I need a spanking

Looking for an understanding but strict Daddy/Dom-type who is intelligent, curious and clever, and who wishes to spank me in an effort to reduce my stress.

I really hate spankings but I need rules and strict discipline to feel centered and productive. I always know that after a spanking I will feel better.

While being spanked is a turn on, sexual release afterward is not always necessary. The part of me that most often needs to be spanked is little (I feel about 6-years-old then) and will more often need cuddles and comfort from a daddy-type after a spanking.

When you spank the adult part of me, sex is more likely on the table but still not necessary.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height165 cm
Eye ColorDepends on my mood
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShoulder length
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchHe understands that I have a lot of power and responsibility in my job which is incredibly stressful especially for a natural submissive, and that a good hard spanking helps me shut my brain down. Also he understands I sometimes need actual correction and crave having rules to follow that I do not set for myself. He is okay with me becoming/feeling quite young (between 7 and 14-years-old) when being disciplined, and yes, I do have a comfort stuffie.
Our first dateGetting to know each other in a public setting.
Age46-55, 56-65

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byDomination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingSomeone to play with
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyPower exchange, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wasHe treated me like his little girl. He made me wear a short skirt that allowed him to spank me whenever he wished, and after a hard OTK session, he held and cuddled me, and brought me hot chocolate and a teddy.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Turns me on:Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Remove Pants, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:I like to be made to wear dresses/skirts (not my usual clothing). The cuter the better.
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Bent under the arm
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Pouting / Crying
Pain level:Light Marks