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academic with a sense of humor

I am very interested in befriending kinksters who would also be vanilla friends (i.e., people with whom I can talk for hours — like-minded or not).
I have always been experimental and am definitely curious to try many different practices.
I am chiefly aroused by the idea of being used as a sex toy.
Severe limitation of movement and deprivation of a sense or two are extremely welcome enhancers.
Appreciating pain is an unexpected and more recent door (and I'm a squirmer, not a screamer).
I find submission per se to be humiliating, which adds a delicious flavor to it all.
I feel reluctant to obey but apparently I do it well.
I suspect I have a strong tendency for D/s.
I identified tremendously with this journal entry.
I think I can only truly surrender to someone if I admire them. A whole lot.

Traits I value, in myself as well as in others, include honesty, intelligence, open-mindedness, respect, courtesy, kindness, patience, maturity, a sense of humor, scientific curiosity, strong command of a language (and at least working knowledge of another), creativity, diligence, confidence and a healthy dose of self-criticism.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildAthletic / toned
Height165 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthNeck length
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
Employment StatusPart-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Boldness, Thoughtfulness

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isBottom
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleOnly in the bedroom
Experience levelIntermediate
Open To Photos & VideosNo