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academic with a sense of humor

I am very interested in befriending kinksters who would also be vanilla friends (i.e., people with whom I can talk for hours — like-minded or not).
I have always been experimental and am definitely curious to try many different practices.
I am chiefly aroused by the idea of being used as a sex toy.
Severe limitation of movement and deprivation of a sense or two are extremely welcome enhancers.
Appreciating pain is an unexpected and more recent door (and I'm a squirmer, not a screamer).
I find submission per se to be humiliating, which adds a delicious flavor to it all.
I feel reluctant to obey but apparently I do it well.
I suspect I have a strong tendency for D/s.
I identified tremendously with this journal entry.
I think I can only truly surrender to someone if I admire them. A whole lot.

Traits I value, in myself as well as in others, include honesty, intelligence, open-mindedness, respect, courtesy, kindness, patience, maturity, a sense of humor, scientific curiosity, strong command of a language (and at least working knowledge of another), creativity, diligence, confidence and a healthy dose of self-criticism.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildAthletic / toned
Height5' 5" (165 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthNeck length
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
Employment StatusPart-time

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Boldness, Thoughtfullness

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isBottom
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleOnly in the bedroom
Experience levelIntermediate
Open To Photos & VideosNo