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The Concept of Moderation is an Invention of the Timid to Control the Bold

I'm chasing this metaphorical white rabbit, The perfect merger of D/s primarily and heavy kink/taboo with b/d and S/M and rough sex for recess if you will (this has got to be the right place.....isn't it?) Wait don't leave, there's a BONUS, I can participate in, and contribute to, Intelligent and occasionally relevant conversation from time to time. I knooow! crazy right? If you are here looking for either your life partner or the sugar daddy of your dreams then well, frankly, were screwed, and not in a consensual, mutually gratifying kind of way. So, What have I got going for Me? Consider this, I'm 100% disease free 155, 5'10" 9"cut, employed, not hard on the eyes, no specific limits beyond I am not a masochist. 17+ yrs Leather Top, I'm mentally stable, and intelligent, I have lived as a Co-head of a poly household. I'm currently focusing on one kink (of numerous kinks that is). you only get one opportunity to Meet someone new, have great sex, and THEN get to know them! BUT. Wait don't hang up yet. I have many more things I would love to explore with someone who truly has a submissive heart and feels the incessant tug of its calling.

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What are your cbt preferences?

I prefer:Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Weights/Parachutes, Stretching, Stroking
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildAthletic / toned
Height5' 10" (178 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Body ArtOther
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Very Long
Endowment (width)Thick
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleBusiness Owner

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Empathy, Boldness, Oddities, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Passiveness
My perfect match******This profile assumes that the following are acceptable to all parties involved (negotiated scene, safe words, safe calls, references, contacting responsible Dominants, S.S.C {ugh} and any new flaming hoop that someone comes up with for potential play partners to jump through.) ******

What I'm seeking is a person/persons not shy of or intimidated by their own kinks or ashamed of enjoying them and is willing to share the experience with someone. even if those desires come straight from some imaginary list of "taboo's " or the infamous "normal people don't do those kinds of things ” category. Me, I have yet to find a kink that I don't either enjoy myself or appreciate someone else getting full enjoyment from theirs. I've run across a lot of these, I used to operate a "play space" Headed an alternative lifestyle organization, and belong to an alternative community and besides I have internet access Y/you can find anything on the internet. Here's how I see it Y/you only get one chance at life and Y/you, like I, should refuse to go out without testing, tasting, touching, smelling, and seeing all that we can reach... So.... what do Y/you think so far? Keep reading.
Our first dateLike I said earlier, you only have one opportunity to Meet someone new, have wild great even consensually violent sex involving, leather, rope, steel, wood, and flesh , and THEN get to know them!!! In That Order, ONCE that's it.

If Y/you have never experienced the intense eroticism of a spontaneous stranger/acquaintance "play" then Y/you haven't experienced pleasure on a whole different level. the nerves, the self doubt, the panic, the breath taking self-indulgence. As I said, if not, Y/you have stolen pleasure from nobody but Y/yourself.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I am seekingA slave
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Branding, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Cupping, Dacryphilia, Defilement, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Fisting, Foot / shoe worship, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Mummification, Needle play, Physical humiliation, Piercing, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera
My most pleasurable encounter wasI cannot share my most pleasurable encounter here. That is for private discussion only. I run the risk of either censorship or offending the sensibilities of the fine folks in this neck of the dating woods.


FetishesExhibitionism, Lactation, Medical / Enema, Piercings, Shoes / Boots, Smoking, Smothering, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Group sex with swapping
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Strip clubs, Fetish clubs, Adult theaters, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Raves, Intimate gatherings in my home, Adult book stores

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Ben Wa balls, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Fruits/veggies, Office supplies, Pocket pussy, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties, All of the above and more!
Size matterYes, definitely
"Off Limits":°Wait° I thought of something that would actually qualify I have discovered that I have been living an alternative lifestyle for so long that regular sex no longer gets Me aroused mentally. You know the rest.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyHere's the mild list and again cannot list everything even this list has been censored.
Oh nothing really that intense, a small kidnapping, followed up by some ******, ****, age, stranger sex, bb, glory holes, k, train, movie theaters, PnP, blood sports, extreme humiliation, younger. unconscious,
Fantasy locationMoving car, At a park, Dark alley, Elevator, Hotel/motel, Movie theatre, Dressing room, My office, In a church, Library, In a taxi cab, Public bathroom
Fantasy sex partner:A young hermaphrodite with a breath play fetish.

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn
I like to wear:I began pursuing Leather at the age of 17 and have developed pretty solid hands, I wear leather when I play and I prefer to wear either formed calf leather gloves or vampire gloves when spanking a bottom and other than my hands I will on occasion use a paddle or a razor strop.
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:Lying face down, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Other
Pain level:Heavy Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I like to wear:Leather, Other
Ideal session:Taking my slave to a book store or glory hole or theater and lining 20 to 40 people up while slave is blindfolded and just go until finished.the whole time me acting like a carnival barker "Step right up"
Ultimate femdom fantasy:I do not have a fem dom fantasy other than a couple of my good friends who are fem doms and both of them I would love to have in sexual service to me for one night.

Foot Fetish Preferences

My fetish role:Dom - Getting toes & feet sucked
Relationship:Photo / video sharing
My interests:Forced foot worship, Sensual foot worship, Small feet, Bare feet
Other activites:Foot fucking
Foot size:Large 9-10
Foot size:X-small < 4
My foot turn ons:Almost nothing unless they are my feet being properly serviced, or the extremely rare occasion of a perfectly shaped perfectly cared for pair of little feet.
My turnoffs:Feet don't turn me on, andLarge, hairy, hammertoed, wide, callused, dirty, smelly, or non pedicured feet definitely turn Me OFF.