*NOTE* Currently we're exploring a possibly relationship.

I'm married and we're interested in a poly-fi relationship with a bisexual guy or a bisexual couple. That's the ideal situation. That being said, someone local who gets along with my husband and interests me might be a candidate for a different sort of arrangement.

I'm sexually inexperienced and interested in finding the right guys to gain more experience. Neither of us has much experience with BDSM yet. I definitely lean submissive, while he is a switch/bottom.

Requirements :
1) You must be able to PROVE that you're STD/STI free.
2) Condoms are a must.
3) You have to be safe/sane. I'm not looking to be maimed or killed.
4) You should be able to prove the above points to my life-mate so that he doesn't have to worry whether I'll be coming home again or not.
5) You need to be LOCAL! I can't stress this point enough. I really want to find someone who lives near to me so we can get together on a frequent basis. This means you need to be in Flagstaff or less than 30 minutes from it.

We are actually looking for a real, long-term relationship when all is said and done. Assume that I'm looking for nothing more than friendship, and maybe something more might develop later. I like to keep active, so my ideal partner should share an interest in hiking, racquetball or some other fun activity like that. I also value intelligence, so I'm looking for people who enjoy reading, art, and/or science.

If you have questions, please feel free to ask.